Live Chat Transcript 1

Sep 8 2011, 12:01 PM
DelightfulTackyHi Everyone!
Sep 8 2011, 12:02 PM
MerryAlanaHello!
Sep 8 2011, 12:02 PM
sparkleisacolorHi!
Sep 8 2011, 12:02 PM
Veronika Habal-NovotnyHello girls!!
Sep 8 2011, 12:02 PM
danica_nicoleHi!
Sep 8 2011, 12:02 PM
han_nahHello! 
Sep 8 2011, 12:03 PM
DelightfulTackyHow's everyone liking the e-conference so far?
Sep 8 2011, 12:03 PM
Veronika Habal-NovotnySO, fabulous.I'm learning a lot, loving the idea of branding & cohesive design. I've been working away on my bloggy. 
Sep 8 2011, 12:04 PM
danica_nicoleLove it! It's been great and really informative.
Sep 8 2011, 12:04 PM
han_nahI'm enjoying it and learning quite a bit.
Sep 8 2011, 12:04 PM
MerryAlanaI'm learning a lot, it's giving me some really good ideas about design and where I want to takemy blog
Sep 8 2011, 12:05 PM
sparkleisacolorI love it! It's just what I needed to get re-motivated with my blog.Plus, I'm learning a ton. Lots of awesome resources
Sep 8 2011, 12:05 PM
DelightfulTackyAwesome! I'm so glad to hear that! 
Sep 8 2011, 12:05 PM
MerryAlanaIt's helping me get re-motivated too.. I have so many ideas now.
Sep 8 2011, 12:06 PM
DelightfulTackyYeah, at times we need something to re-spark our passion for blogging.
Sep 8 2011, 12:06 PM
sparkleisacolorI like that you guys timed it with Fashion Week, so much good stuff between the two
Sep 8 2011, 12:07 PM
Veronika Habal-NovotnyAgreed, I loved watching the IFB streams yesterday ...SO much information, it's crazy. Crazy good, of course.
Sep 8 2011, 12:07 PM
DelightfulTackyYeah, we started doing INDIE because we had both been to NYFW conferences and they were fun,but we wanted to make an option for people who couldn't travel to NYC or who were just starting their blog and didn't really want to make that huge of a commitment yet.
Sep 8 2011, 12:08 PM
Veronika Habal-NovotnyI love that you girls did that. I'm hoping to go next September but it's nice to get to know a bit more of the girls/blogging world before going.
Sep 8 2011, 12:08 PM
prettybugginHello
Sep 8 2011, 12:08 PM
DelightfulTackyhi!
Sep 8 2011, 12:08 PM
Rebecca RidlingtonExactly. It is also nice to be able to come back and look at resources as a reference tool too
Sep 8 2011, 12:09 PM
sparkleisacolorYeah it's definitely perfect for that. Agreed, Veronika. I'd love to go next year and this is a great kind of baby step towards it, haha
Sep 8 2011, 12:09 PM
KristinaMGulinoHi everyone!
Sep 8 2011, 12:09 PM
MerryAlanaIt is really nice to have the opportunity to participate in a way, as I can't afford to travel/am not quite ready for that yet. (maybe next year too!?)
Sep 8 2011, 12:09 PM
MerryAlanaHi!
Sep 8 2011, 12:09 PM
DelightfulTackyNYFW is fun for meeting people in person because everyone is all together going to conferences
Sep 8 2011, 12:09 PM
DelightfulTackybut it is a huge cost,especially if you live far away!
Sep 8 2011, 12:10 PM
sparkleisacolorI feel like I'd be nervous to be around other bloggers who are way more established than I am
Sep 8 2011, 12:10 PM
KristinaMGulinome too! agreed.
Sep 8 2011, 12:10 PM
prettybugginI think that's how you would learn more and get more of an identity
Sep 8 2011, 12:10 PM
DelightfulTackyHaha, everyone is really nice at blogger conferences
Sep 8 2011, 12:10 PM
Veronika Habal-NovotnyIt sounds like it would be so much fun! And I too would be a bit nervous, I must admit, but from the bloggers I have met everyone seems really friendly!
Sep 8 2011, 12:11 PM
Veronika Habal-NovotnyI love that it's such a warm & welcoming community.
Sep 8 2011, 12:11 PM
DelightfulTackyAnd it's cool to see bloggers you like online in real life!
Sep 8 2011, 12:11 PM
KristinaMGulinoYea! That would be trippy. So great.
Sep 8 2011, 12:11 PM
DelightfulTackyI never encountered anyone mean or rude at conferences
Sep 8 2011, 12:11 PM
MerryAlanaThat's part of why I like blogging, everyone is really nice and you get to communicate with people you never would have met otherwise
Sep 8 2011, 12:11 PM
Veronika Habal-NovotnyYes, it must be so fun, to meet the girls in real life &haha, so trippy.
Sep 8 2011, 12:12 PM
KristinaMGulino Veronika
Sep 8 2011, 12:12 PM
DelightfulTackyYeah, Tieka and I are such good friends and we only met because of blogging! Crazy!
Sep 8 2011, 12:12 PM
sparkleisacolorYeah I would love to meet people in real life! I feel like I'd get star struck like a nerd haha
Sep 8 2011, 12:12 PM
KristinaMGulinoI've met @muchloveilly online and we are hitting it off great. Very cool who you can connect with.
Sep 8 2011, 12:12 PM
Veronika Habal-NovotnyI would so be a star struck nerd too!
Sep 8 2011, 12:12 PM
KristinaMGulinoI'll be nerds with you!
Sep 8 2011, 12:13 PM
sparkleisacolorHaha yes! I feel so much better 
Sep 8 2011, 12:13 PM
DelightfulTackySome people have said they saw me at a conference or on the street but were too nervous to come say hi, but that's so silly!
Sep 8 2011, 12:14 PM
DelightfulTackyI wish that they had come and said hi so I could've met them IRL!
Sep 8 2011, 12:15 PM
KristinaMGulinoMy blog is only 2 months old and has come a LONG way.I'm glad we have this time to grow our own sites. It really helps. I'm sure we could all use the tips! Cause seriously, it took me forever to even figure out what a stinkin' BUTTON was. Lame.
Sep 8 2011, 12:15 PM
sparkleisacolorI think it's an awkward situation, because you feel like you know someone so well from reading their blog, but then remember you're still basically strangers haha
Sep 8 2011, 12:15 PM
DelightfulTackyYeah. that's a strange dynamic
Sep 8 2011, 12:15 PM
Veronika Habal-Novotnyyes, totally strange.
Sep 8 2011, 12:16 PM
Veronika Habal-NovotnyIt's weird how much we can all know about one another without actually having met. But I'm so inspired by the blogging community.
Sep 8 2011, 12:17 PM
KristinaMGulinoSame here, V!
Sep 8 2011, 12:17 PM
DelightfulTackyYeah, you basically read about someone's life on a daily basis but you've never met them in person
Sep 8 2011, 12:17 PM
Veronika Habal-NovotnyI love hearing about other girls lives with similar interests, it's been really inspirational.And of course there are the clothes too!!
Sep 8 2011, 12:17 PM
sparkleisacolorAgreed, I'll read so many blogs and wish I knew these people IRL, because they are so awesome
Sep 8 2011, 12:17 PM
DelightfulTackyBut I suppose people meet online and get married sometimes,so it's not totally crazy!
Sep 8 2011, 12:18 PM
sparkleisacolorHaha, that is true!
Sep 8 2011, 12:18 PM
Veronika Habal-NovotnyHaha, yes,totally!
Sep 8 2011, 12:18 PM
KristinaMGulinoBut one thing I haven't heard discussed is privacy. Is that anyone else's concern? Like, sharing pics of your house, telling people where you live? I mean, we're all attractive gals...
Sep 8 2011, 12:18 PM
Jennie BottoneI think about that sometimes
Sep 8 2011, 12:18 PM
DelightfulTackyyeah
Sep 8 2011, 12:18 PM
KristinaMGulinoMaybe we should all pretend we're celebrities.
Sep 8 2011, 12:19 PM
Veronika Habal-NovotnyI've definitley thought about the creeper aspect. And I've received one rather unpleasant email,from a guy. Sheesh!
Sep 8 2011, 12:19 PM
DelightfulTackyI had a dream some crazy stalker was after me once
Sep 8 2011, 12:19 PM
KristinaMGulinoyikes!
Sep 8 2011, 12:19 PM
sparkleisacolorYeah that can get intense
Sep 8 2011, 12:19 PM
KristinaMGulinoI only bring it up bc I have some men following me on Twitter.
Sep 8 2011, 12:19 PM
DelightfulTackyI don't share my address or even let people know my last name
Sep 8 2011, 12:19 PM
KristinaMGulinoAnd I don't know who they are, so I blocked them.
Sep 8 2011, 12:20 PM
Rebecca RidlingtonA general rule I try to follow is if there are street signs or numbers I blur them out
Sep 8 2011, 12:20 PM
DelightfulTackyYeah, I've had creepers add me as a contact on flickr,like dudes with naked photos and stuff.So nasty
Sep 8 2011, 12:20 PM
Rebecca Ridlingtonin photos, that is
Sep 8 2011, 12:20 PM
DelightfulTackyYEah
Sep 8 2011, 12:20 PM
Veronika Habal-NovotnyI try not to share too much of where I live or my last name on the blog.
Sep 8 2011, 12:20 PM
sparkleisacolorYeah I wouldn't give out my address, and I'd avoid anything too telling about yourself
Sep 8 2011, 12:20 PM
DelightfulTackyI've even done that w/my license plate
Sep 8 2011, 12:20 PM
sparkleisacolorflirk is the WORST for creepers
Sep 8 2011, 12:20 PM
Veronika Habal-NovotnyI've so had the creepy Flickr men, eek!
Sep 8 2011, 12:20 PM
DelightfulTackyyeah, I don't know what it is about flickr
Sep 8 2011, 12:20 PM
Jennie BottoneOne of my favorite bloggers had someone steal her pictures and post them as their own
Sep 8 2011, 12:21 PM
danica_nicoleLol I'm glad I don't use flickr then
Sep 8 2011, 12:21 PM
Jennie Bottonei'm not really sure of the details
Sep 8 2011, 12:21 PM
KristinaMGulinohw assignment #1 -redo the About Me section... haha.
Sep 8 2011, 12:21 PM
DelightfulTackyhaha, maybe I'll do a post on privacy. I hadn't thought of that before, but it's a good topic!
Sep 8 2011, 12:21 PM
KristinaMGulinothanks!
Sep 8 2011, 12:21 PM
DelightfulTackyyeah, someone has stolen my photos and pretended to be me as well.
Sep 8 2011, 12:21 PM
DelightfulTackySo bizarre
Sep 8 2011, 12:21 PM
KristinaMGulinoI just think...there are so many of us (esp fashion bloggers)who post CUTE pics. And anyone can follow you. Eek, ok no more.
Sep 8 2011, 12:22 PM
sparkleisacolorI think it's maybe not so bad for people who don't live in big cities or common places. Like if I post a picture of my street, no one will know where I am haha
Sep 8 2011, 12:22 PM
DelightfulTackyI mean, you can watermark your photos to kind of prevent that, but I hate watermarked photos and I figure they can always photoshop it out
Sep 8 2011, 12:22 PM
KristinaMGulinoYea, I don't live in a big city
Sep 8 2011, 12:22 PM
KristinaMGulinoTrue, sparkleisacolor.
Sep 8 2011, 12:23 PM
Rebecca RidlingtonI hate the look of watermarked photos, but I understand why people do it. I wish there was another option though, for sure
Sep 8 2011, 12:23 PM
DelightfulTackyYeah, I didn't worry so much when I lived in Alaska, but in WA there are more people who read blogs
Sep 8 2011, 12:23 PM
Mackenzie Burgerhey everyone, I see we are talking about privacy?
Sep 8 2011, 12:23 PM
MerryAlanaI have kind of the opposite problem, I work in a very small town and I have to keep my blog from the people around me... a different sort of privacy issue. I work as a reporter at the local paper so I need people to take me seriously and a lot of people who find out about my blog tend to think it's silly if they don't understand.
Sep 8 2011, 12:24 PM
DelightfulTackyAh yeah, there's that too
Sep 8 2011, 12:24 PM
MerryAlanaor maybe not opposite...different problem

Sep 8 2011, 12:24 PM
KristinaMGulino@DelightTacky, how about a post on how to best write your Bio? I feel like that's your resume, but also your personal space to express yourself without giving too much away.This chick ain't free!
Sep 8 2011, 12:24 PM
DelightfulTackyI know some bloggers who are school teachers and keep their students from finding out about their blogs
Sep 8 2011, 12:24 PM
DelightfulTackyyeah, that might be a good idea too
Sep 8 2011, 12:24 PM
MerryAlanaI created a separate Twitter from my one I use for local area stuff because there's news people on there who follow me too.
Sep 8 2011, 12:24 PM
DelightfulTackyI don't let people know my birthday either, haha!
Sep 8 2011, 12:25 PM
KristinaMGulinosmart!
Sep 8 2011, 12:25 PM
Veronika Habal-NovotnyDitto, no b-day date either!
Sep 8 2011, 12:25 PM
Veronika Habal-NovotnyI have a b-day week, but hopefully that's vague enough
Sep 8 2011, 12:25 PM
Mackenzie BurgerI've googled myself and somehow my blog doesn't show up for a few pages, thankfully
Sep 8 2011, 12:25 PM
sparkleisacolorOne thing I wish is that I hadn't shared my blog with my family.They don't quite get it and it's so strange when they talk about it haha
Sep 8 2011, 12:25 PM
DelightfulTackyMy name is pretty common anyway so even if people did know my last name it'd be hard to find me
Sep 8 2011, 12:26 PM
MerryAlanaI haven't told my family either
Sep 8 2011, 12:26 PM
KristinaMGulinoI created mine for my family
Sep 8 2011, 12:26 PM
DelightfulTackyHaha, my family loves my blog. It's funny
Sep 8 2011, 12:26 PM
Jennie BottoneI'm the opposite my family loves my blog
Sep 8 2011, 12:26 PM
KristinaMGulinoAnd they love it!
Sep 8 2011, 12:26 PM
KristinaMGulinohaha me too!
Sep 8 2011, 12:26 PM
Jennie Bottonei think they are the only ones who read it lol
Sep 8 2011, 12:26 PM
KristinaMGulinoI got off Facebook, so it's the next best thing. Awww @JennieBottone
Sep 8 2011, 12:26 PM
DelightfulTackyespecially since I don't live in AK anymore it's cool for them to see my life
Sep 8 2011, 12:26 PM
KristinaMGulinoyea
Sep 8 2011, 12:26 PM
sparkleisacolorHaha my dad keeps posting links to it on his facebook. It's so embarassing
Sep 8 2011, 12:26 PM
Rebecca RidlingtonI've gotta sign out - my work break is over - some great thoughts though ladies!
Sep 8 2011, 12:27 PM
Mackenzie BurgerMy mom and my old boss would always hint at reading it but never admit to it!
Sep 8 2011, 12:27 PM
KristinaMGulinoBy Rebecca!
Sep 8 2011, 12:27 PM
DelightfulTackyBye rebecca!
Sep 8 2011, 12:27 PM
sparkleisacolorbye rebecca!
Sep 8 2011, 12:27 PM
KristinaMGulinooops, bye*... I can spell, promise.
Sep 8 2011, 12:27 PM
DelightfulTackyI sometimes wonder if people from high school or ex-boyfriends have found my blog, haha!
Sep 8 2011, 12:27 PM
Diana SofoneaHi girls!
Sep 8 2011, 12:27 PM
Jennie Bottonehaha
Sep 8 2011, 12:27 PM
Mackenzie BurgerYikes, I haven't thought of that!
Sep 8 2011, 12:27 PM
KristinaMGulinohi diana!
Sep 8 2011, 12:27 PM
DelightfulTackyHi Diana!
Sep 8 2011, 12:27 PM
sparkleisacolorHaha I haven't either!
Sep 8 2011, 12:28 PM
Veronika Habal-NovotnyRight, ex-boyfriends, that would be awkward.
Sep 8 2011, 12:28 PM
KristinaMGulinoIt's like a sneak-peek of your 10 year reunion.
Sep 8 2011, 12:28 PM
KristinaMGulinoI'm a blogger! What do you do?
Sep 8 2011, 12:28 PM
sparkleisacolorMy mom's first reaction was thinking I was so vain for posting pics of myself on the internet,then she started jumping in my photo shoots and trying to out-do my posing haha
Sep 8 2011, 12:28 PM
DelightfulTackyHaha
Sep 8 2011, 12:28 PM
DelightfulTackyhahah
Sep 8 2011, 12:28 PM
KristinaMGulinoaw cute!
Sep 8 2011, 12:28 PM
Jennie Bottonehahah
Sep 8 2011, 12:29 PM
KristinaMGulinoyay mommies!
Sep 8 2011, 12:29 PM
MerryAlanaI worry because my dad is very conservative/protective and he would probably do something like demand i take it down
Sep 8 2011, 12:29 PM
MerryAlananot that he can demand i do things anymore
Sep 8 2011, 12:29 PM
DelightfulTackyhaha, yeah
Sep 8 2011, 12:29 PM
MerryAlanabut that's the sort of reaction he would have i'm sure
Sep 8 2011, 12:29 PM
sparkleisacolorI feel like the internet is still kind of confusing for our parent's generation, esp if they don't use it much themselves
Sep 8 2011, 12:29 PM
DelightfulTackyI think people of that generation sometimes have a hard time understanding how EVERYONE is online now... haha
Sep 8 2011, 12:29 PM
sparkleisacolorhaha yes, exactly
Sep 8 2011, 12:30 PM
KristinaMGulinoThankfully, my parents aren't online at all.
Sep 8 2011, 12:30 PM
Mackenzie BurgerIt's nice since I live across the country from my family and this way they can still keep tabs on my since I usually talk about differnt thing on the blog than on the phone to them
Sep 8 2011, 12:30 PM
sparkleisacolorThey get all "Someone is going to steal your life!"
Sep 8 2011, 12:30 PM
danica_nicoleYeah, my parent's are fine with it though. My mom even has an etsy shop! haha.
Sep 8 2011, 12:30 PM
Mackenzie Burgerhaha
Sep 8 2011, 12:30 PM
Veronika Habal-NovotnyMy parents love the blog, both work in marketing/pr & totally get it.
Sep 8 2011, 12:30 PM
KristinaMGulinovery cool!
Sep 8 2011, 12:30 PM
DelightfulTackyI figure if someone is going to pretend they are me, that's pretty sad that they don't like themselves so much they have to pretend being someone else.
Sep 8 2011, 12:31 PM
DelightfulTackyThere's definitely a range of parental reaction, that's for sure
Sep 8 2011, 12:31 PM
DelightfulTackyI think my grandparents know about my blog too,haha!
Sep 8 2011, 12:31 PM
sparkleisacolorMy grandmother loves it! Strangely I think she's the only one who "gets" it
Sep 8 2011, 12:32 PM
Diana SofoneaMy dad was kind of furious when I told them about my blog.But I think my mom likes it. She sent me an email with her thoughts on every single outfit I've posted at that time!
Sep 8 2011, 12:32 PM
KristinaMGulinoWell it's crazy when you said your blog is 'a corner of the internet" because once I found out about all these amazing blogs, I thought, "What the HECK have I been doing these past few years?!
Sep 8 2011, 12:32 PM
DelightfulTackyhaha
Sep 8 2011, 12:32 PM
KristinaMGulinoIt's such a HUGE market
Sep 8 2011, 12:32 PM
Veronika Habal-NovotnyAgreed. I wish I learned about style blogging a looong time ago!
Sep 8 2011, 12:33 PM
danica_nicoleSame here.
Sep 8 2011, 12:33 PM
Mackenzie BurgerI wish I wold have gotten involved sooner, it's so much fun.
Sep 8 2011, 12:33 PM
DelightfulTackyI felt like I came in late to the whole blogging thing and I started over 3 years ago!
Sep 8 2011, 12:33 PM
MerryAlanaI was reading fashion blogs for about two-three years before I started mine, I was too shy to do it and now I wish Ihad done it sooner!
Sep 8 2011, 12:33 PM
Jennie BottoneAre most people here style/fashion bloggers?
Sep 8 2011, 12:33 PM
KristinaMGulinoHome Decor
Sep 8 2011, 12:33 PM
Mackenzie BurgerI had been lurking/admiring for over a year before I started commenting, and eventually starting my own blog
Sep 8 2011, 12:33 PM
sparkleisacolorMe too, I definitely wish I had gotten into the whole online/web design thing too
Sep 8 2011, 12:33 PM
MerryAlanaI do personal style mostly
Sep 8 2011, 12:33 PM
Mackenzie Burgersame merryalana!
Sep 8 2011, 12:33 PM
Veronika Habal-NovotnyYup! I'm a personal style blogger
Sep 8 2011, 12:34 PM
han_nahI am personal style as well!
Sep 8 2011, 12:34 PM
sparkleisacolorI've started leaning more towards a general lifestyle kind of blog
Sep 8 2011, 12:34 PM
Jennie Bottoneyeah i think mine is more lifestyle
Sep 8 2011, 12:34 PM
Mackenzie BurgerPersonal style/ diys/lots of things!
Sep 8 2011, 12:34 PM
DelightfulTackyI ran across style blogs randomly one day and saw rebecca (the clothes horse) and the next day I decided to start a blog. I thought it was so cool and so fun!
Sep 8 2011, 12:34 PM
KristinaMGulinoIt's a blast.
Sep 8 2011, 12:34 PM
KristinaMGulinoBut it can takeover your LIFE.
Sep 8 2011, 12:34 PM
KristinaMGulinoAnyone feelin' me?
Sep 8 2011, 12:34 PM
DelightfulTackyyeah, if you're not careful
Sep 8 2011, 12:34 PM
Jennie Bottoneyes
Sep 8 2011, 12:34 PM
sparkleisacolorYours was one of the first ones I started reading Elizabeth,your hair sucked me in haha
Sep 8 2011, 12:34 PM
Veronika Habal-NovotnyYES! very true.
Sep 8 2011, 12:35 PM
KristinaMGulinohaha
Sep 8 2011, 12:35 PM
sparkleisacoloryes, absolutely!
Sep 8 2011, 12:35 PM
DelightfulTackyIt's so important to balance blogging w/ real life
Sep 8 2011, 12:35 PM
KristinaMGulinoMy job is boring though and I do NOTHING. So my blog is my work...that I do for free. I guess thats ok for now 
Sep 8 2011, 12:35 PM
DelightfulTackyI think some people get obsessed with networking and getting more followers and more traffic/pageviews... it gets impossible to keep up w/ it all
Sep 8 2011, 12:35 PM
Jennie Bottoneyeah thats my hardest problem, i can't update constantly cuz i work full time plus freelance
Sep 8 2011, 12:35 PM
Veronika Habal-NovotnyI'm definitley trying to find the balance, especially now that I've started working with sponsors and such.
Sep 8 2011, 12:36 PM
KristinaMGulinoYou all can schedule posts! Write them, and they can auto-post later
Sep 8 2011, 12:36 PM
DelightfulTackyWhen I lived in Alaska I worked 10 hour days AND blogged full time. It was a hard balance to keep, but I managed.
Sep 8 2011, 12:36 PM
MerryAlanaI work full time sometimes up to 60 hours a week, so it's hard to find the time to blog sometimes.. or even to schedule posts, I need to work on my organization.

Sep 8 2011, 12:36 PM
Jennie Bottonethats a good idea
Sep 8 2011, 12:36 PM
Mackenzie BurgerAt first I was so happy just to get any followers!
Sep 8 2011, 12:36 PM
Diana SofoneaMy problem is taking outfit pictures. Still can't get used to to posing in front of a tripod.
Sep 8 2011, 12:36 PM
danica_nicoleIt's been nice for me since I don't have a job yet. It gives me some kind of schedule in a way.
Sep 8 2011, 12:36 PM
DelightfulTacky@kristina once I learned about scheduling, I loved it!
Sep 8 2011, 12:36 PM
KristinaMGulino@Mackenzie, me too!
Sep 8 2011, 12:36 PM
sparkleisacolorI've had trouble finding the balance too. It was either feeling pressured to post constantly, or letting it go weeks without it. I just took a breather and feel ready to re-vamp the whole blog/life thing
Sep 8 2011, 12:37 PM
Jennie Bottonesame
Sep 8 2011, 12:37 PM
KristinaMGulino@Delight it's the best.It's like your blog works on it's own.
Sep 8 2011, 12:37 PM
DelightfulTackyI try to post every day,but if I miss a day or two its no big deal.I try to take sundays off too.
Sep 8 2011, 12:37 PM
Veronika Habal-NovotnyElizabeth/girls, do you have any tips for handling comments, I love commenting back! But often get around 80 per post. Any tips on finding the balance?!
Sep 8 2011, 12:37 PM
MerryAlana@Diana - I have trouble with the outfit pictures too.. need to get a tripod because my boyfriend is pretty unwilling to take photos and when he does they are out of focus. I envy those bloggers with bf photographers
Sep 8 2011, 12:37 PM
sparkleisacolorAgreed, @Diana,taking outfit pics can be tough
Sep 8 2011, 12:37 PM
Diana Sofonea@sparkeisacolor, me too! Haven't posted since April. Now I'm sooo ready to start all over 
Sep 8 2011, 12:37 PM
Mackenzie BurgerI really think the quality of followers is more important thatn the quantity. I've made some blogging friends and thats the best part.
Sep 8 2011, 12:37 PM
Jennie Bottone@merryalana I know!lol me too
Sep 8 2011, 12:38 PM
DelightfulTackyI used to comment back about 2 years ago, but it's just impossible to keep up with commenting back and producing good content
Sep 8 2011, 12:38 PM
sparkleisacolor@Diana Same here basically! I took a summer vacation 
Sep 8 2011, 12:38 PM
DelightfulTackyI actually changed my commenting system so I could reply directly to comments so it was easier.
Sep 8 2011, 12:38 PM
KristinaMGulinoReply as MUCH as you can.
Sep 8 2011, 12:38 PM
sparkleisacolorYeah I need to install something that lets me reply to individual comments
Sep 8 2011, 12:38 PM
KristinaMGulinoPeople love feeling like they are apart of your community,and you will have the chance to build relationships with them.
Sep 8 2011, 12:39 PM
MerryAlanaI use disqus, and can reply from my phone via email which is useful (not that I get that many comments..)
Sep 8 2011, 12:39 PM
KristinaMGulinoI admit I feel ignored by a lot of "big time" bloggers.
Sep 8 2011, 12:39 PM
KristinaMGulinoI don't even follow them anymore.
Sep 8 2011, 12:39 PM
DelightfulTackyYeah. It's really really hard
Sep 8 2011, 12:39 PM
Mackenzie Burgerfor sure. If someone takes the time to read and comment on my blog I want to give them my time too!
Sep 8 2011, 12:39 PM
MerryAlana@Kristina - me neither! I follow a lot of smaller bloggers who I feel I can connect with
Sep 8 2011, 12:39 PM
KristinaMGulinoTotally!
Sep 8 2011, 12:40 PM
Mackenzie BurgerBut then again my blog is fairly small so I'm able to do that.
Sep 8 2011, 12:40 PM
DelightfulTackyI know rebecca from the clothes horse used to comment on my blog all the time but now she doesn't,but I totally understand now why that's kind of impossible to maintain
Sep 8 2011, 12:40 PM
KristinaMGulino@MerryAlana yea. Or the larger blogs that actually give you attention. It's like a business. These are the people you are writing for.
Sep 8 2011, 12:40 PM
sparkleisacolorYeah, it's tough because you know they can't always comment back, but then you feel like such a little fish in a big pond
Sep 8 2011, 12:40 PM
KristinaMGulinoI use Wordpress, and it sends me an email for each individual comment. Maybe that's easier?
Sep 8 2011, 12:40 PM
DelightfulTackyThat's why I like using twitter. W/ twitter it's much easier for me to respond to people
Sep 8 2011, 12:41 PM
Veronika Habal-NovotnyIt is hard to maintain. I used to comment on every single one, but it just got harder &harder. It became my new full time job.Yay, for twitter.
Sep 8 2011, 12:41 PM
Mackenzie BurgerThen theres the other side of it, when you get people commenting on your blog just so you will comment on theirs. it's complicated
Sep 8 2011, 12:41 PM
sparkleisacolorYeah, I've felt like I've been able to connect with people a lot better since getting active on Twitter
Sep 8 2011, 12:41 PM
KristinaMGulinoTwitter helps a lot
Sep 8 2011, 12:41 PM
KristinaMGulinoBut Twitter is also a tool to help draw followers to your blog
Sep 8 2011, 12:41 PM
DelightfulTackyI just don't want to go comment on someone's blog just to "comment back" If I comment, it's because I actually have something to say.
Sep 8 2011, 12:41 PM
Mackenzie Burgerhow do you guys feel about linking to your blog in the comments?
Sep 8 2011, 12:42 PM
Mackenzie Burgercomments on other blogs*
Sep 8 2011, 12:42 PM
KristinaMGulinoAgreed, @Delight
Sep 8 2011, 12:42 PM
Mackenzie Burgerthats very true.
Sep 8 2011, 12:42 PM
DelightfulTacky@mackenzie i think as long as it's not the only thing in your comment
Sep 8 2011, 12:42 PM
DelightfulTackyor as long as your comment isn't something like "cool" and then your url
Sep 8 2011, 12:42 PM
Veronika Habal-NovotnyTOTALLY!
Sep 8 2011, 12:42 PM
sparkleisacolorI try not to every time,unless it's the first comment I've made on someone's blog
Sep 8 2011, 12:42 PM
Jennie Bottoneyeah
Sep 8 2011, 12:42 PM
KristinaMGulinoI heard that's a no-no,most forms will ask for your URL anyways. But don't leave it IN the comment, it can be spam both officially or considered by the blogger.
Sep 8 2011, 12:42 PM
DelightfulTackyit's pretty obvious when people are using commenting JUST to get you to click over to their blog
Sep 8 2011, 12:43 PM
sparkleisacolorAnd I always make sure I have something to say, and I don't just comment for commenting's sake
Sep 8 2011, 12:43 PM
Veronika Habal-Novotnyor the follow me and I'll follow you right back. One word?! Bye, bye!
Sep 8 2011, 12:43 PM
sparkleisacolorOh my god, yes, those are so annoying!
Sep 8 2011, 12:43 PM
Veronika Habal-NovotnyI've started to hate those comments, so rude!
Sep 8 2011, 12:43 PM
Jennie BottoneI try to only comment if I want to contribute or let the blogger know something
Sep 8 2011, 12:43 PM
DelightfulTackyyeah, I got one of those the other day *eyeroll*
Sep 8 2011, 12:43 PM
DelightfulTackyhaha
Sep 8 2011, 12:43 PM
Mackenzie Burgerhehe
Sep 8 2011, 12:44 PM
sparkleisacolorWill there be any more chat sessions during the conference?
Sep 8 2011, 12:44 PM
DelightfulTackyYeah, I'm pretty sure Tieka is going to do one and I might do another.
Sep 8 2011, 12:44 PM
KristinaMGulinoyay!
Sep 8 2011, 12:44 PM
Jennie BottoneYeah i like this set up
Sep 8 2011, 12:45 PM
Jennie BottoneI've never attended an EConference
Sep 8 2011, 12:45 PM
KristinaMGulinoMe too, it's easy.Thanks girls!
Sep 8 2011, 12:45 PM
sparkleisacolorMe too, and I have to go soon but I am really enjoying this
Sep 8 2011, 12:45 PM
DelightfulTacky
Sep 8 2011, 12:45 PM
KristinaMGulinoI've written down everyone's names in here. I'll be sure to say hi later!
Sep 8 2011, 12:45 PM
Mackenzie BurgerIs there going to be some kind of list so we can check out other peoples blogs from the conference?
Sep 8 2011, 12:45 PM
sparkleisacolorOh good idea!
Sep 8 2011, 12:46 PM
DelightfulTackyYeah, i was actually thinking of creating a page just for that!
Sep 8 2011, 12:46 PM
Veronika Habal-Novotnyoh, good idea Mackenzie!
Sep 8 2011, 12:46 PM
Jennie BottoneYeah I was wondering about that
Sep 8 2011, 12:46 PM
han_nahThat would be awesome.
Sep 8 2011, 12:46 PM
Jennie Bottonethat and like a resource guide for later
Sep 8 2011, 12:46 PM
Veronika Habal-NovotnyI'd love to pop by & connect with everyone's blogs!
Sep 8 2011, 12:46 PM
DelightfulTackyFor sure!
Sep 8 2011, 12:46 PM
Veronika Habal-NovotnyPerhaps in a comments section or something?1
Sep 8 2011, 12:46 PM
DelightfulTackyyup
Sep 8 2011, 12:46 PM
Veronika Habal-NovotnyYay!
Sep 8 2011, 12:47 PM
KristinaMGulinoHooray Hooray!
Sep 8 2011, 12:47 PM
Jennie Bottone@DelightfulTacky are both you and Tieka at the real conference?
Sep 8 2011, 12:47 PM
DelightfulTackyNope. Tieka is at NYFW but I'm here in Tacoma
Sep 8 2011, 12:48 PM
Mackenzie Burgerdoes anyone here have any experience with guest blogging? I think I'd like to feature some other bloggers but am not sure how to go about doing it
Sep 8 2011, 12:48 PM
sparkleisacolorOh, hey! Congrats on the engagement @DelightfullyTacky
Sep 8 2011, 12:48 PM
Veronika Habal-NovotnyI find just sending a warm & sincere email does the trick, oh, and giving notice helps too.
Sep 8 2011, 12:48 PM
Veronika Habal-NovotnyI
Sep 8 2011, 12:49 PM
DelightfulTackyI've guest blogged before. Usually you just email the person and ask them if they want to guest blog
Sep 8 2011, 12:49 PM
DelightfulTacky@sparkle Thanks!
Sep 8 2011, 12:49 PM
KristinaMGulino@Mackenzie, are you talking about YOU writing the post about them? Or having them write a post for you?
Sep 8 2011, 12:49 PM
Veronika Habal-NovotnyI've received the odd 2 days notice, guest post request. Usually hard to fill though. 
Sep 8 2011, 12:49 PM
Mackenzie Burgeralright, I can handle that, haha!
Sep 8 2011, 12:50 PM
DelightfulTackyYeah, if you want someone to guest blog for you, you should for sure give them at least a week's notice
Sep 8 2011, 12:50 PM
Mackenzie Burgerhaving someone write a post on my blog
Sep 8 2011, 12:50 PM
KristinaMGulinoGotcha.
Sep 8 2011, 12:50 PM
sparkleisacolorI've thought about doing that, but then worry if it's someone who I am an avid follower of and would love to feature, but they don't follow my blog. Would that be weird?
Sep 8 2011, 12:50 PM
DelightfulTackyI've never had guest bloggers on my blog but I'm going to have some for my wedding/honeymoon
Sep 8 2011, 12:50 PM
Jennie Bottoneyeah thats what i was thinking
Sep 8 2011, 12:51 PM
Jennie Bottone(@sparkle)